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Im afraid of death, and have been for a few years. I dont talk about it to anyone, but the past few months i have been scared, and it scares me more and more each day. My friend told me a story of her daughter knew when she was going to die, like a sense, and this really freaked me out, because now i keep thinking im getting these "senses." i recently finished a carl hiaason book, where mick killed multiple people and at the end of the book i found myself crying i didnt want to die. is there anyway to help me not be so scared? im really tired of always being scared and wondering, which i know will never stop."it's so much easier to die than to get by" end of each verse in ICP "Maniac Depressive", I would rather die than to try to go on, but I at times feel happy about my depression, it's a complicated thing to explain.................I am not afraid of death, but, I don't know about not being so damn scared about it, but I do know, that there is supposed to be something wrong with you if you don't have anxiety(a fear about things in ones life), as fear is what keeps us in check, as for me, I seem to concentrate it all on one situation.............................I hope I enlightened you a little about this!Savvy, you are not savvy at all. You do have an irrational fear and you would do yourself and others a big favour if you just made a resolve to get rid of it. Nobody knows when they are going to die. Worry is simply freaking out so much over something that has not happened yet that one day you will wake up and find yourself dead.I honestly think you should talk to someone who you trust and is not halfway across the world hiding behind a computer monitor. Anyway, its normal to be afraid to die, but you might be a little extreme. Talk to a school counselor, or read the bible sometimes.I think the best thing for you to do is see a therapist, and get all your feelings. Maybe there is something in your past at the root of your fear, and I think a therapist could really help you work on your issues.yeah...thats normal.
i have panic attacks all the timeMost people are afraid of death. I've learn that death will definitely be the best part of your life, I promise you wont be disappointed.
Great post "nysenutz"actually its reversie phsycology if you are moire afraid you are less likely to die because youll be more aware of you surroundings and im not trying to say you should always be scared just be more aware of the things going on around oyu froim now oni had to sam problemSounds like you've become obsessed w/ this subject! The truth is that unless you've been psychic all your life your "senses" are nothing more than just paranoia. There really is no way of knowing when & how any of us are going to die, the only certain thing is that we all will. Now if you think about this constantly you will drive yourself nuts and waste your precious life away rather than live it and enjoy yourself! Stop concentrating on something you have no control over and concentrate on something you can - like your life. Put the creepy literature away, and enjoy yourself. If it makes you feel better try to think of death not as the end of life but as a beginning of another. None of us really knows what happens after death but we have beliefs that let us get through the fear of it. I like to believe that your soul goes on and just exists on a different level - I believe that the place where we're going is the same place that we come from - our existance in the physical world is a part of our existance in the spirit world, if that makes sense. Like we have a purpose over here, to learn something, to interact w/ certain people to accomplish and learn something. Then after we cross over to the next world we get to understand what it was for, what our lesson was and who those people we have met were supposed to mean to us. I know this is vague - it's hard to explain your beliefs and have it not sound retarded but I hope it gives you a different perspective on life and death...I was afraid of death but I really don't think I am anymore. I'm not sure why.Its weird knowing my time well come and it doesn't worry me.i have an abnormal fear like this too. i dont know if i would call it "normal" i dont feel normal, but then again what is "normal"?
my advice, as someone with this fear, is to first stop reading books like that, i used to read that stuff but it just keeps your thoughts on the subject.
i would also suggest therapy, it was something that helped me.
also i dont know if u are religious (i am not at all) but coming to terms with what you think happens after u die helps too.after reading that i bet im gonna think im getting these "sences"
but anywaysss.
i think you should talk to someone you trust and are close to. it makes it easier finding out your not alone.lots of people are scared of death but they shouldnt be. someone else said to read the Bible, that's the best thing to do... and find a church. because there you learn why you dont have to be afraid of anything... God takes care of it all.
death is another part of life, and honestly..
i think that you aren't afraid of death, but just that when death comes you won't have truly accomplished what you wanted throughout your lifetime.
these senses are only in your head, its completely unpredictable when you are going to die so make the most of your life while you have it.
don't spend your time worrying about death because most likely you have quite a few years ahead of you and don't want to waste them!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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