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remind yourself that Lionesses swim with the Sharks™, not minnows.I think of what I did wrong to warrant the rejection, then make a mental note not to do it again.
If I didn't do anything wrong then I'd ignore their rejection because obviously we dont see eye to eye on things. They're probably just Lamey McLamersons anyways....Rejection is a normal experience, sometimes you win some, sometimes you lose some. But even losing doesn't have to be bad.
Losing or rejection can be seen as a positive experience if you think of the "what ifs?" .
Perhaps at the time, you could be sad because it didn't work out, but then later if you think of the "what ifs?" you could see that perhaps it really wasn't meant to be, that the situation may have been no good for you in the long-run.You tell yourself good things, believe them and find some activity to do to keep your mind busy so you don't think about the hurt from it. It's him, not you, so just life your life....be happy. Better things are to come.If they reject you they probably don't deserve you!don't sweat it anymore - recognize (as men who are successful in sales and love do) that it's a numbers game.
you meet 100 people a month
10 are interesting
3 are date material
1 is a potential soulmateDon't dwell on it, and move on with your life.
Make yourself useful instead of playing the same tape in your head over and over again.
Volunteer, join a club, get a new hobby. Contribute.Rejection is a very hard thing to accept because it sends us into a turmoil of self doubt.
Bear in mind that someone may reject you because you are more advanced than they are and they can't handle it.
That nice idea that I explained above doesn't really help when you are grieving the person who has rejected you because he feels inferior to you.
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Keep telling yourself that you are at least as equal or superior to the person who has rejected you. Chances are you are being rejected because the situation wasn't right and it has nothing to do with you.Come to terms with your loss, and look at what you can do the next time around to avoid recurrence of the same. Whining won't help, nor does pitying yourself.Tell yourself that you are too good for them anyway.learn from your possible mistakes and realise that it's meant to be.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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